Analysis of the nature of marriage and love

<Analysis of the nature of marriage and love> simple is the most mature and beautiful, simple elegance is the most abundant
1 What kind of husband and wife the happiest? In short, most happy couples know their own happiness - in happiness conceivable blessing. Unfortunately, is the largest body in the fortunate, who are in the fortunate people, appears to be large in the happiness of others can not see him, because he did not know blessing, will never be happy, at least not the most happy; and The greatest happiness is in happiness conceivable blessing, because to know to enjoy life blessing, blessing is blessed to know people. So, do not miss the simple life in every detail, every marriage should not ignore the extraordinary move, to do with knowledge in happiness, blessing the people.


2. Marriage is like a Box, it changes the marriage of men and women, and that change itself is not that marriage work, it is the marriage of husband and wife own their own in the change, which means that men and women through the tie of marriage intentionally or unintentionally, in changing their own.


3. Marriage seems to be effective Pingdan steady, dull to a long, thin stream of water to long, but Pingdan does not mean tasteless, completely fine placid water is not equal to, or into marriage is the other extreme, is another dead marriage , tasteless without marriage is the biggest novelty fatal.


4 married couples the largest and most important change is no longer married couples enjoy each other. Specifically, ignore each other's advantages, there is no praise, no praise, more of a sarcastic and ironic; ignore each other for their own doing, that everything is taken for granted, not from the heart of Thanksgiving.


5 Unfortunately, the marriage is not only unfortunate couple. With the marriage of husband and wife pair of very good vision into the marriage hall, they can ultimately disappointed, so they blame the marriage, that marriage is the tomb of love, and the fact is that they really want to blame themselves.


6. Love can not be forced, marriage without force, both men and women, should be careful about love and marriage, marriage can not be free to emotional behavior.


7. The face of an unhappy marriage, we first need to do is to abandon the war, and certainly not aspiring to immediately return to sweet, but to each other, stop and think about it. Did not think there would be no action, it is impossible to find the key to solving specific problems, because their own wants and what the details of marriage is always the most clear only their own problem-solving is the key to the ultimate grip in their own hands.


8. Communication is the first to solve the marital problems of the key, the key to one of the most important, communication can solve most marriage problems.


9. Loyalty to the marital relationship is the bottom line, once broken, the boat may be knocked over marriage, wife hurt, hurt children, hurt their loved ones. Although many people understand this truth, but there are too many temptations in this world, it is important to achieve a clear mind, to learn to reflect on their own so that they are mature.


10 happy with the basic premise of course is love and loyalty, and ultimately depends on being able to really get good feelings between husband and wife habits. So, good practice achievements happy marriage.


11 between husband and wife love each other with mutual loyalty with this is a basic requirement, of course, must first be done, but the level of marital quality of life is reflected in more detail. Details is not difficult to solve the problem, the key is not to turn a blind eye not to see and no matter.


12. Love is an art, love is two people grow together, which have to have communication, there are only about the exchange, there is only a deeper understanding of love. Communication there must be a dispute, but this is not a bad thing, compared to cover up the contradictions exposed the contradictions, the final is more conducive to marital harmony, silence is not a problem, but rather to conceal and evade the issue.


13. When we worry about people blaming Heaven complain boring marriage or misfortune, in fact we are guilty of the same fatal mistake, that is: we will point to the root of marriage and marriage itself, unfortunately, rather than our own, this is really a big the errors, the tragedy of our. Who is making a bad marriage? Is our own, fortune and misfortune, all in their own.


14. Modern couples have three mental errors: only the couple concerned about the neglect of small-world community with each other; always want each other according to their own patterns of thinking and habits to act; granted to each other as private property is completely their own.

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15 separated the two couples than ever before, more experienced the temptation to have more emotional candidate, perilous, for marital relations is a great challenge. Since the couple can not overcome the reality as the two separated, then we must accept this fact first, followed by some more than other couples marriage intentions to run.


16. To a man the same heart, the same woman first "face." To run no more than men, women do not do Xianglinsao. Never marry a woman become "Huanglian Po" and "nagging woman" of the watershed.


17 men most in need of a perfect harmony with his bosom companion, when man is the erotic temptations, it is the wife of their own to lure her husband into the forefront, other women will just take advantage of. Let her husband away from the erotic temptation to do the best magic is that women own their own, to seize the heart of her husband who caught her husband, all the temptation also vulnerable. Of course, if a man can resist the temptation erotic, key in their own, their own men was disappointing, obviously still at home wife is living in fortunate, such a man on the hopeless.


18. Six "extreme" man shall not marry: a man of extreme selfishness; extreme efforts to reach the lecherous men; extreme macho man; extremely stingy stingy man; extremely loose lazy man; extreme Oedipus complex man.


19. There is no absolute right of marriage preservation tactics, not a panacea for all marriages are useful, marriage is a dynamic, whether fresh, the key is not to seek fresh tactics of these, but often the string of my heart, came up with this string, you will come up for your own marriage and the preservation of tricks, the couple can often love always new.


20 What is the greatest tragedy of love? Some might say, of course, the greatest tragedy of love is love to eventually broke up, break up because they do not love it, which of course is sad, but this is a tragedy of love, not frustration, but from another point of view of love Fortunately, not with love but insist that is the tragedy. In fact, the greatest tragedy of love is self love each other are not sure whether, as a mistake do not love love.


21 husband and wife do not abuse each other to their own tolerance and freedom of power. Of course, both spouses have their own circle of life and freedom of communication, but you have to know to enjoy this freedom and relaxed atmosphere at the same time, do not forget to think about each other's feelings. To trust each other to their own, to be fair to the other's trust; each other with tolerance to self, to be fair to the other side of tolerance; each other to their own free space, but to be fair to this freedom.


22. Husband and wife after a long fit of anger should not remain silent and indifferent. Can be summarized in two words silence and indifference of mass destruction: Silence is the invisible injury; greatest harm than indifference.


23. Suspicion is the marriage of a malignant tumor, smart couples know how to work together to skillfully resolve, is the party to do their own distrust, suspicion of the party and relieved to have more trust, mutual understanding, mutual trust, mutual loyalty, reduce misunderstanding, strengthen communication, to avoid suspicion as to destroy the good feelings and happy marriage.


24. Marital relations to be sustained, in addition to the premise of mutual loyalty and sincere, but also to be borne in mind two things: love can be beautiful as a brief flash of lightning, but the marriage seems to be real steady and dull. Simplicity is the most mature beautiful, simple elegance is the most abundant. Is condensed into two words: Simple.


25. Whether it is happiness or misfortune, which must have its reason in it, happiness is not born, but unfortunately not born, the envy of others in a happy marriage, lamenting their own marriage, unfortunately, you wonder whether the reason lies? You can not change except for some external factors and forces, unhappily married couples are the most bitter hand lead, and we often only know how to complain, but I do not know their own reflection.


26. The ultimate breakdown of the marriage of two reasons: they are not embracing love. Love they did not know each other. Marriage between husband and wife get along even more important than love.


27 men chose what kind of woman as life-long partner is equivalent to choose what kind of life too. Good wife is the good life, behind every successful man there must be a good woman, being a man's side there must be a good woman. Good woman is a school and his mother was the school boy, a woman is man's school, a man in a woman's good or bad the whole tune, tuning is not a discipline, is the subtle influence. The boy from his mother began, the boy is not sterile, the mother has the responsibility; men from the women started, not a gas man, a woman has the responsibility.


28 extra-marital affairs, marital infidelity and the meaning of betrayal, but the incidence of extra-marital affairs are not groundless, the number of internal and external environment has its place, emotion is indeed extremely complex matter, not simply to be judged by good or bad, perhaps the rational thinking contribute to a better deal with this difficult problem. Both to themselves and other opportunities, but also to the opportunity of marriage and family, while yet a man's basic dignity. To think rationally and face, self-confidence and dignity to deal with.


29. A woman need? After all, a woman in addition to basic material security to live comfortably, even more important is a sincere man, a man of truth love, there was a careful and caring. Nuances, see the truth, love her act, carried out in every detail of life to go.


30. Feelings are two interactive, one hot one cold have any strength, is now, who left the one who will not live it? Sank, not love, and marriage is also a form of nothing more to it Zuoshen? Have only had good, strong pull is the pull back, let it become the heart of the memories it, why insist on a new pain to have to destroy the good?


31. Marriage is not the source of happiness is nothing more than the following two: First, the foundation of marriage without love, and second marriage do not know how to operate. This is in fact no one understands, is the absence of a serious effort to sort out, there is no good to think about, there is not really going to implement it.


32. Love and marriage is not a one-man show, men and women if only a purely personal level of excellence and achievement is not necessarily a happy marriage, both husband and wife Romantic style, or a mutual appreciation-type couple, its essence is the same, that is, each solution style, to understand life, the so-called husband and wife "play two-man" - did not match no.


33 When the husband and another love, the heart has been irreparable, the really do not want you, the wife not depressed, not from life down and to quietly continue to live good, live up to expectations, do not put personal sad desktop, do not do Xianglinsao, to dare to face the bleak marriage, the courage to face the cruel separation. Even worth the pain, but also to stop, learn to calm in the face of the developments. But always remember not to beg, begging not to love, and marriage is not come begging, begging not to the well-being, self will always be the true masters of their own, only their own can save themselves.


34 so-called "Seven Year Itch" is just plain married life with bio-only, we do not fear or wild exaggerations, "The Seven Year Itch" is not insurmountable obstacles, it's just a reminder to careful management of their own marriage, because marriage is learning, need to keep learning.


35 when the feelings of the less fortunate marriage crisis, a woman talk to the object should be selected carefully, remember the word: If you do not want lovers, try not to look for sex talk. Of course this is only from a psychological point of view of a woman's wake, but also just a probability analysis, to do and not do all in your own hands.


36 face of pathological marriage, we can not act on impulse, or only at immediate gratification and quick to divorce if they do not blindly swallow, bite the bullet for their own living in pain, the best approach is to first try to heal repair.


37 in our sweet love to get married, but marriage is broken in real life many of us had better vision, we are tired, we are tired, so finally one day, our minds in the face of ferocious word out of "divorce." Divorce, really so awful? Think about actually no big deal, there are co-points, there is a marriage of divorce, you just before the divorce-related issues should at least think clearly, and then cut back to the marriage too late, so at least you will not regret it After all, divorce is a life-changing nature of the event. Marriage can not bear too confused, of course, be divorced from the plainly.


38 couples whether they have a healthy psychological state, personality is a good fit both spouses, whether there are ways to understand the business of marriage, happy marriage of these is to determine whether or not the three key elements, are indispensable.


39. Love fade, sex ice, coupled with fatigue from work and life pressures, internal and external, will inevitably produce the consequences of extramarital affairs and divorce, every couple should clearly aware of this, to strengthen the initiative, hard work but can not be lazy life, find out the "disease" and to pay for action to break the vicious cycle of poor marital relationship, positive lifestyle changes, looking for new common topic, try the new changes in sexual life, to overcome the lazy mood, creating a new romance and surprises, improve apathy feelings and regain the passion of the couple, love is certainly heating up again.


40 pay and obtain a marriage is mutual, whether the wife or husband should try to avoid doing so-called "slave" wife or husband, mutual love, mutual care, mutual care can work together to the old. Remember: "serve" type of marriage is bound to be short-lived marriage.


41 Respect and freedom are fundamental to the relationship of marriage is, no matter how deep the love between husband and wife are not to neglect these two principles, it would be deep love will consume Yi do not respect there is no love, no freedom there is no love, to get long-term marriage, we must hold these two basic bottom line.


42 most frequently overlooked between husband and wife thing is friendship, or a basic respect for each other, with love, affection is to maintain a good marital relationship with the three basic fulcrum. Loving couple has three conditions, namely, love, affection and friendship, so, marital harmony, happy marriage.


43. A woman transformed man, a man transformed woman, after all, but a run-in between men and women, there is no real sense of who the transformation whom. If we want to transform each other, it became a fruitless but never ending war, think, love itself is a transformation, the transformation is only because there is no love in vain, with the love, the transformation becomes superfluous .


44. Love without intimacy, marriage without every night Spring Night. Love must continue to add temperature, need to continue the marriage fresh. Marriage without love is wrong, no marriage, love is defect.


45 the door to marriage, do not blindly follow. Marriage is a responsibility, just out of the dilemma is bound to make you'd rather die.


46. ​​No life couples never quarrel, to keep in mind is that quarrel end of the bed and the bed, the couple did not overnight hatred, only this way can hand to the old, the same bald, loving life.


47. Everything is doomed fate, who could not fully refined, but never give up the pursuit of true love, even a lifetime until the end of life.


48. If your favorite is fortunate enough to find who loves you, this is the grace of God for you, they must live up to, to cherish their lives. Only stand the test of temptation and love after years sharpen only qualify as true love, but also will like the more mellow and pleasant, such as aged wine.


49. Through love, through passion, into marriage, into the plain, through the seven-year itch, crossed the threshold ten years of marriage or a dead end road is wider and wider, thanks to how we care, how to operate.


50. Marriage is a lifetime career couples, to the effort to operate, it is in marriage, husband and wife together again and again across the ridge before more and more difficult to have rich content, it appeared more and more precious to grow old, had been circulated marriage out her real charm.

 

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